Survivor

Why am I passionate about empowering individuals and families affected by domestic violence?  Why am I dedicated to work towards societal change, even if I probably will not see it in my lifetime?  Am I a survivor?  Since it's Halloween---my favorite holiday of the year---I will tell you my personal horror story. I am a…

The Hmong patriarchy and values

The Hmong culture is very patriarchal.  The men make the rules and the women follow them.  The men are the clan leaders.  The men are the head of the families.  The men make all the “big” decisions.  Sons are valuable assets to a family because they are the ones who will carry on the clan…

Domestic Violence Awareness Month

October is Breast Cancer and Domestic Violence Awareness Month in the United States.  I am dedicating this month's blog posts to something that I am very passionate about: Domestic Violence (DV), especially in the Hmong community.  Each blog entry during this month will be a segment of how Hmong traditions/traditional norms set the state for…